Seven main causes of baby dumping
among teenagers in Kuala Lumpur
1. Lack of religious upbringing
In this case, we don’t deny that the
lack of religious upbringing is the main reason for baby dumping cases to
occur. Usually, groups of adolescents are involved in the case of abandoned
babies. Lack of religious teachings and guidance to life cause them to lose
direction in life and engage in negative symptoms, such as free association.
Adolescents who are engaged in free sex tend to result in unwanted pregnancy
before marriage. In this situation, teens who lose their faith measure inhumane
and would leave their newborns in places like public toilets, litter bins, side
drains and so on
2. Poor application of religious
knowledge
“Religious prayer pole” said our
Prophet Muhammad S.A.W. When someone lacks of their religious prayers, their
whole life is damaged. Without religious, humans are blind as they cannot have
proper guidance to life.
3. Lack of parental care supervision
Sometimes, parents are always busy
with their work. Teenagers must pay attention to them a lot. They need love and
they need friends to talk about their problems. Some teenagers like to take
opinions from their friends of different gender. When that happen, some of
their boyfriends take advantage to do free promiscuity. When unwanted babies
are born they are dumped because of absence of adult adence.
4. Family break-up
Family break-ups happen after a long
period of misunderstandings, fighting and unhappiness. Sometimes they happen
suddenly and it is hard for children to understand the situation. Children are
mostly affected by this kind of situation. If both their mother and father
decide to a divorce and cannot raise their children alone, the tendency is that
they will dump their child. This child will become homeless and find himself
alone.
5. Peer Influence
In addition, peer influence also
leads to cases of baby dumping occurred. This is because at a young age, teens
are very easily influenced by their peers. This problem becomes worse when they
associate with negative peers. Negative friends will invite young people to do
things outside the boundaries of religion and norms of society, such as going
to places of entertainment such as disco, taking drugs and doing free
association. Many teens who fall into promiscuity, and eventually reach a dead
end to find her self with unwanted pregnancy. In desperation, they have to
discard their babies.
6. Media influence
As we know, media such as Majalah
Mangga, URTV always publishes many articles and news about social life.
Sometimes television also highlights social life. Such matters encourage
teenagers to follow the example expose.
7. Economic problem (poverty)
If the teenagers come from poor
family, they always have economic problem. Sometimes they see economic problem
as a one way to go far away from the family. Sometimes they become prostitude
to make some easy money. So from promiscuous activity. When unwanted babies are
borned, without think, they dump the babies anywhere without mercy.
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